18. Medical Matters

Over the 40 plus years we have inhabited our little slice of paradise, we have occasionally had the need for medical care.  I suppose the first time we went to the village doctor was when our daughter was about 2 years old.  She had broken out in hives, which was subsequently diagnosed as an allergy to septra medicine, which she was taking for a cold. 

When visiting your village doctor back then, you simply arrived early and sat in the waiting room until it was your turn to be called into his office.  It  was a first-come, first-served system.  I remember that the doctor was very kind, and he spoke only French.  He looked at our very blond, fair-skinned daughter and said she would be having many allergies in her life. I poohed-poohed the idea, thinking he was just basing his opinion on the fairness of her skin, compared to most of the French children, with their olive complexions, in our village.  However, he was certainly correct! 

I had occasion to visit him again shortly afterwards when I, unfortunately, had a miscarriage (une fausse-couche).   My best friend went with me that time and helped me make an appointment with a gynecologist in Perpignan for a thorough examination.  

My husband often got a build-up of wax in his ears, particularly after an overseas flight.  One year we were with our friends in Cerbere and we mentioned that he was having trouble with his ear.  Our friend sent us right over to their village doctor.  “He’s wonderful!” our friend said.  “Our son has that problem frequently, and this doctor is fabulous at getting the wax out.”  So we made our way over to the office on the next street and waited our turn to see the Cerbere doctor.  This doctor was indeed very good at clearing wax from ears.  He used the old fashioned method of a bowl of soapy water and a tube to pour it into the ear.  In no time at all, the ear was cleared and my husband could once again hear.  When a blockage occurred again several years later, we called our friends in Cerbere to ask about that wonderful doctor and found he had retired.  So we tried the doctor in our village, but ended up with a couple of assistants, who really did not do a good job at all and spent a lot of time getting nowhere.  So one never knows what one will get!  In future years, we made sure to have his ears checked by his ENT in the US before flying.

About 10 years ago, my husband was diagnosed with a blood cancer (MDS).  We knew that he would need to see a specialist while we were in France, as he was, at that time, getting blood tests every month, as well as injections.  But in order to get to a specialist, we first had to have a referral from our village doctor.  So we traipsed down to the village doctor and waited in his new waiting room until it was our turn to see him.  When we got into the office, we found a woman at the desk; we never found out if this was another doctor or an assistant.  She asked us lots of questions and said she would arrange an appointment for us up at the hospital in Perpignan.  So we paid her the nominal fee (always about 20 euros) for the visit and went home to await her call.

Several days later, having not received any call from the doctor’s office about our impending appointment at the hospital, I called my French friend and she offered to call the doctor to find out what was going on.  She found there was still no word.   Several more days went by and my friend went off on vacation for a week.  So I went back to the doctor’s office and talked with the receptionist.  “Oh yes,” she said.  “Your husband has an appointment at 2 p.m this afternoon.”  “But why didn’t you call us to let us know?!” I asked.  “Well, I called your friend and left a message,” she replied.  “But you had our phone number, right here on your paper!” I replied.   Of course, our friend, whom she had called, was on holiday for the week!  So another wild dash back up the hill and into the car to get to our appointment with the specialist by 2 p.m.

The drive up to the hospital in Perpignan usually took us about 40 minutes if the traffic was light.  Once there, we searched for a parking space in a large lot, and then had to walk quite a distance to get to the main entrance of the building.  After a few trips, I learned to drop off my husband at the main entrance plaza, then go park the car, while he sat on a bench and waited for me.   My best friend had given us her husband’s wheelchair and walker after his death, and these were also very helpful whenever we had an appointment in Perpignan.  Our doctor was located in a suite of offices just off the main lobby and we quickly learned the routine of checking in at a particular window where they would check his passport and then hand him a sheet of little stickers with his name and date of birth on them.  We were then to hand the stickers to our doctor, who would laugh and toss them aside saying we didn’t really need them—they were only for those with une carte vitale—a medical ID card that means the French government is paying for your care.  Not having une carte vitale really threw bureaucrats off their pace.  They looked at us as if we were aliens, and in a sense, we were.  After our appointment, our doctor would walk us back out to the window of the central office and then we had to go through the scene of trying to pay for our appointment.  Fees are regulated and are currently about $25 per visit, but paying out of pocket is such an odd occurrence that it always took an explanation from our doctor and from us to get the office to accept payment from us.  Forget about trying to get change!   One time our appointment ran later than 6 p.m., when the office closed, so there was no one to check us out.  The doctor just laughed and said “I guess you don’t have to pay today!”   

A few years later, the hospital changed the check-in system, so we had to go to a central area of the lobby and take a number, then wait on benches until our number was called.  The first few times going through this process, they accepted my payment at the check-in desk, but then one day we got a woman who threw up her hands in despair of having to deal with a paying customer and said, “Just wait for the bill to come in the mail!  I can’t take any money here.”   So that worked out well, except for one year when we returned to the US before the last bill reached us in the mail.  That bill sat in our mailbox until we returned the following year, and had incurred late fees and donning letters from the government!  It was then that I discovered a way to pay the bills online.  This worked until the year of the pandemic.  Then we could not return to France for over two years.  When we finally arrived, I found two very moldy bills in the letter box and found I could not check on the status of these statements online, I suppose because they were two years old!

This connection with the hematologist in Perpignan was the best thing to happen to us.  The hematologist was so gentle and caring and willing to work with us and with our doctor in the US.  He not only cared for my husband’s oncology needs, but also wrote him prescriptions for all his regular medications (whose total cost was much less  in France than our co-pay in the US), and prescribed medications when my husband arrived one year with a terrible cold   We developed such a good relationship with this doctor that I could email him with our arrival date and he would respond with a date for our first appointment and then mail my husband’s blood test orders and injection  and other medication prescriptions directly to our apartment, so it was waiting for me when we arrived.

In France, there is not a nurse in the doctor offices, at least not where we are.  Nurses have a separate office in the village.  I think there are two or three such offices in our village.   Our first year with the specialist, we learned that we had to purchase his injection syringe at the pharmacy and then take it to the nurses’ office to have it injected.  For the blood tests, we would go down to the lab on the street below our apartment.  There we sat until it was his turn to have blood drawn.  We called that lady with the needle, “the vampire,” as she was quite brutal with her needle!  Then I would return the next day to get the results (anywhere from 17 euros to 85 euros).   If the results indicated he needed an injection, then I would purchase one at the pharmacy and take it and my husband to the nurses’ office to have it administered (another 5 euros).

However, we soon learned that we could have a nurse come directly to our apartment and draw his blood there.  No need to go sit in the lab in a long line of other people.  And, since the nurses in his US oncology office had taught me how to give him his injection, no need to go anywhere else to have that administered!  So then we could have a favorite nurse all lined up for our arrival.  She came every two weeks, drew his blood and took it to the lab.   

The cost was just 8 euros  and 60 cents, which I always tried to have in exact change (they refused to take a cent more).  Then I just walked down  to the lab the next day and picked up the results and paid the lab.  Every month we drove up to the hospital for an appointment with the specialist.  That became a smooth and easy system for us.

We then explored the possibility of getting a handicapped sticker/card for the car.  We had gotten one for the US and that was quite easy–only two pages of information to supply and the card would be good for 5 years.

The French system, of course, was full of red tape and a 10-page form to be completed by us and by his doctor in Perpignan.  After it was all mailed in, we were told that it might take 2 months for processing and then he might be called in for an interview.  By the time all this had happened, we were back in the States!  The following year, we arrived to find three letters from the handicap office waiting in our mailbox.  They were so confusing that I had to have my best friend translate them for me.  Apparently, they needed another photo of my husband, which I quickly sent to them.  Eventually, we received the handicap card to be displayed on the front right windshield of our car.  Since we have a different lease car every year, I simply tape it to the window, instead of using the provided plastic sleeve that is supposed to be adhered to the windshield.  The best part of this story?  It’s good for life!  No expiration.

The cost of doctor’s office visits continues to be about 23 euros per consultation, which is so very much less expensive than in the US.  The medicine and lab tests are also very inexpensive.  The nurse who comes to our apartment to draw blood charges about 7 euros per visit ($8).  The injection syringes full of the medicine are 10% of the price in the US.  However, none of these charges are covered by our medical insurance, so, although they are so much cheaper than in the US, we do have to pay the charges out of pocket, with no reimbursement on the US side.  When we are in the US, our insurance pays for everything, except prescription drug co-pays.  The foreign medical insurance we have included in our US policy covers only in-patient hospital visits in a foreign country.  So far, that has not been a necessity, thank goodness!

Pharmacies are also a great source of medical assistance.  Many years ago, we drove up to the lovely big white sand beach in Canet.  As I entered the water, I stepped on something that stung my foot!.  I was in terrible pain, but eventually managed to get up to the street and made my way to the “green cross,” which indicates a pharmacy.  They knew instantly that I had stepped on a fish called a “vive” which had stung me in the foot.  They applied a large bundle of cloth soaked in something, which took away the pain right away.  No charge.

The team of pharmacists and clerks at our local pharmacy are so very welcoming.  Since I have been purchasing my husband’s injections there for many years, they know us well and are always pleased to see our return to the village.   Of course they still automatically ask me for my carte vitale, and I get a look of amazement when I inform them I have to pay for this very expensive medicine myself! One year I managed to get my husband down to the village for a short walk to the main plaza.  Walking past the pharmacy, I noticed that the clerks had seen us and were lined up at the window to wave at him and give him encouragement.  So sweet!  During the pandemic, we tried to think of ways to help the merchants in our village.  One thing I did was to call one of the village florists and order bouquets of flowers for all the female clerks in our pharmacy (about ten) for St. Valentine’s Day.  They were so surprised and thrilled!  When we finally returned to Banyuls, they continued to thank me for the flowers each time I went into the pharmacy.  This connection with the local pharmacy also came in very handy when we needed the French health passes that proved we’d been vaccinated against COVID-19.  It took about a month, and the connection with a pharmacist in Le Boulou to get these done, but the gals learned how to do it and we had our passes before leaving the US!  We traveled with French passes, Spanish passes, US certificates (from the CDC) and certificates from our county health agency.   When American friends finally managed to return to their home in the next village that same Fall, I sent them to our pharmacy, as the pharmacies in their village refused to give them French health passes.  They were delighted that, within an hour, our pharmacy gals handed them their official “passes sanitaires”!

When we returned to France the following spring, we had gotten our boosters by then, so sent off all our information once again to our pharmacy and they sent us new health passes.  But shortly after our arrival, restrictions began to be dropped, so we needed the passes only for entering the hospital for my husband’s appointment with his hematologist.  General mask mandates also were dropped that spring, but continued to be required for all medical facilities.

About one month into our visit that spring, a spot of cancer began to grow on my husband’s wrist.  It grew so fast and was also painful, that he began to get quite worried about it.  I checked with friends about a dermatologist nearby, but they informed me that getting an appointment with a dermatologist in France takes at least 3 months.  So I sent a photo and email to our dermatologist in the US, who knew immediately what it was and said he would take care of it when we returned in mid-summer.  But it was a worry for my husband, so we sent a photo and email off to our village doctor, who replied that he was very experienced with these cancers and could take care of it the following week.  Unfortunately, he then cancelled the appointment at the last minute because of an emergency!  So then we had another week of stress and anxiety until we could get scheduled again.  The following week, we met my French friend at a nearby parking lot; she helped my husband into the wheelchair, and then she helped me push him around the block to the doctor’s office.  We were about half an hour early, as one never knows what will be the parking availability in the center of town.  At just about our appointment time, we were called into the office.  The doctor explained what the cancer was and that it was not a “bad one.”  Then he wheeled my husband into the exam room, put his arm on the exam table, gave him a numbing shot, and sliced off the growth.  Blood went everywhere!   But he and his student assistant quickly began to stitch up the incision, and then they more stitches….and then more stitches, so that I wondered if they would ever be done!   They were “very thorough,” as my husband remarked.  Then a general clean-up of all the blood and lots of bandages were applied.   It was quite a large growth, shaped like a volcano, and it was sent off to a lab for analysis.  We returned to his office where he wrote out orders for special cream and special bandages for me to redress the wound every two days, and an order for the nurse to remove the stitches in 10-12 days.  

Then he asked for our Carte Vitale.  “No, monsieur, we have to pay you.”  Oh the fuss!  Oh the trouble we caused!  He and his assistant had to find the guide book for charges and then figure out what the charts meant.  Finally they gave me a bill for 88 euros 56 cents. (about $95), which I gladly paid.  They have no clue that to just walk into a doctor’s office in the US often costs $120, although insurance pays for that.  Surgery for only $95 — imagine!

Over the next week, I redressed his stitches every two days, as instructed.  Ten days later, the nurse arrived for my husband’s usual blood test, and she decided that his stitches were ready to be removed.  Afterwards, she left me the stitch-removal kit she’d used, as it was only useable for one patient—a very cute thing to have in my medical supplies!  The next day, his arm was all red around the wound, and he couldn’t decide if he was too hot or too cold.  Areas of pus began to appear and the village doctor agreed to come to our apartment to look at the wrist.  He decided it was an infection and prescribed an antibiotic and a cream for five days.  It continued to be swollen with lots of drainage.   Even after we finished the antibiotic, there was pus erupting from an area beside the healed incision.  This was quite a mystery to us, and to our nurse as well!  It wasn’t until a month after surgery when we had returned to the US, that we learned from our US dermatologist that such an eruption of pus can sometimes occur due to an “aggressively overactive healing process.”  Eventually it was healed and that medical issue was resolved.

That was our last season together in our tiny village of Banyuls sur Mer, as my beloved husband lost his battle against MDS and age the following spring.  The response of care and  kind messages I received, after news of his death reached the other side of the pond, from his hematologist at the hospital, the gals at our pharmacy, his nurse, the village merchants, and our many friends has been overwhelming  We spent 40 years making this village our second home, and it has repaid us time and again with its care and kindness.

17. POST PANDEMIC

After two years and two months of pandemic seclusion in the US, we were finally permitted to return to our home in Banyuls sur Mer.  I had packed our suitcases a year and half before and they had sat in our home office, waiting for restrictions to be lifted.  Those suitcases got repacked several times as we reevaluated was would be most important, given the chances of my husband’s health.  Meanwhile my best friend’s health had taken a turn for the worse as she had been fighting cancer while confined in her tiny apartment in Perpignan.  We were very anxious to get back to France to try to help her recover.  Booking our flight was a chore as the company we had been using for many years had only credited us for our flight when the pandemic shut down everything—the only travel arrangement which did not reimburse our money—and now they were insisting on charging a large rebooking fee.  In frustration, I went directly to Delta to book our flight over.  The return two months later would be easy as that was a cruise back from Barcelona.  

After I made the flight reservation, I called the car lease company to book our usual Peugeot, only to find that Peugeot factories had shut down during the pandemic and now there was a shortage of cars!  I was finally able to order a Renault, but it would only be available 4 days after our arrival.  So I went back to Delta and changed our flight (I didn’t want to fly on 9-11 anyway!), to line-up with our car pick-up.  But several weeks later, we heard from Delta that our flight was changed and that there would now be a connection through JFK!  That was simply not possible for my husband, who had been failing for the past year.  So I called Delta yet again and was able to change the flight back to a direct flight, one day earlier.  Then I booked our usual hotel near the airport for the one night before we could pick up the car.  It wasn’t possible to change the pick-up date of the car as that would mean we’d have to wait another two weeks for a car!

Finally all seemed to be in place and I was busily working on getting us French health passes.  We also registered for Spanish health passes as that was all set up for us by the airline.  We registered with the French government for passes but only got a response saying that they were overwhelmed with requests and we would have to wait.  No further response ever came.  I then contacted our pharmacists in Banyuls who tried, but were unable to get through the computer red-tape of government regulations.

Meanwhile, I contacted another couple in our state who also have a home near Banyuls.  They were returning to their French home the same Fall and also needed French passes sanitaires.  They’d gotten the same response from the government, so had contacted a UK friend In their French village, who took all their information to a pharmacy in Le Boulou.  There he found a pharmacist who was also a bit of a computer geek and who was able to massage the computer system to allow Americans to get a French passe sanitaire.    I passed on his name and phone number to our pharmacy in Banyuls, and lo and behold, a week later we received our official passes by email from our friends at our pharmacy!  About this time, another couple we knew from many years ago who also had a French home near us for many years, had arrived in France and none of the pharmacies in their village were at all helpful in getting passes for them.  I sent them to our pharmacy in Banyuls and within an hour, they had their official passes!  Later they returned to our pharmacy and brought the gals a nice box of chocolates as a thank you.

It was about then that we heard that our hotel in Barcelona had closed temporarily because of COVID-19.  The hotel booking service had transferred our payment to another nearby hotel, one we’d used and liked many years ago.  I had trouble getting a response from the booking service to confirm this transfer, so ended up calling the hotel directly and was told that all was taken care of and we could get into our room as early at 10 a.m.

Then there was the limousine debacle!   When I contacted our local limousine service to drive us the three hours to our US airport of departure, I discovered that the couple who ran it had retired.  So I then explored other options, but most companies I called were charging twice the price of our former service.  Finally a friend recommended that I call a man who was always advertising his car transport service in a local publication.  That seemed to work, although the man seemed never to have driven to the airport and quoted me a price that was half of what we used to pay, so I was a bit leery of this arrangement.  Then I started getting calls from one of the other companies I’d called for quotes, who were trying to confirm a reservation for me!  I had quite a time with that as they didn’t seem to understand that I’d not made a reservation at all; I’d just asked for a quote.  Even as late as four days before our departure , they were still trying to confirm our pick-up!  

A week before departure, I called the man with whom I had made our reservation, and confirmed with him; I even called the day before to make sure he would be there the next morning.  Yes, he said, he would be there to get us.  Four hours later, he called back to say sorry, his car was still in the shop and he wouldn’t be able to take us to the airport after all!  PANIC. I asked if he could rent a car to drive us and he said he didn’t have a credit card.  Well, that did it for me.  I told him to forget it, I’d get us there myself.  GROAN   A neighbor kindly took me to our small local airport where I picked up a rental car—another long process as cars were scarce, so this took over an hour.  And the next morning, I loaded the car with five suitcases and a walker, got my husband comfortably ensconced ,and we took off for the three hour drive to the airport.  I was worried about how I would handle getting from the car rental center to the airport with my husband, who would need a wheelchair, and all the luggage, but that turned out beautifully handled as our car rental company provided a driver for us who drove the car with us and all the luggage still in it from the car rental center directly to the airport at no additional cost.

Getting through the airport was a bit of a trial this year, as we patiently waited for a wheelchair and then someone to push it to get us through a long check-in line, through Security, and into the sky club.  The flight was not as comfortable as we’d hoped it to be in First Class.  We dutifully kept on our masks except when eating or drinking.  My husband decided that a glass of scotch was a good thing to order as he could keep sipping that for hours, thus avoiding the mask!  

Arriving in Barcelona seemed to go smoothly.  We had our Spanish passes scanned and were permitted into Spain.  Our wheelchair pusher took us directly to the taxis and we were soon at the lovely hotel nearby.  We decided that from now on, we will always arrange one night at the hotel so that we have a nice rest before the drive up to France.  All went well until I went to check out the next morning.  I knew that we should only be charged for the breakfast buffet and for drinks from the minibar, but the clerk said that my credit from the previous (closed) hotel had been reimbursed to my credit card, not transferred to the new hotel.  This was not what I’d been told when I called them to confirm everything.  She assured me that the refund would be on my account and proceeded to charge me for the room as well as breakfast and the minibar.  Just as I signed the receipt, she said “that was room 817, wasn’t it?”  NO. it was room 127!!  She’d just charged me for someone else’s room!  So then she realized that my credit from the other hotel had, indeed, been transferred to them and that I only owed for breakfast and the minibar.  So she had to do a reimbursement on my credit card for her error!  Thankfully, it all worked out okay.   

A taxi took us over to the car leasing office nearby and we had a small reunion with our agent there, as he was so glad to see us again, and we were delighted that he was still at work there!  No problem getting the car; they loaded the luggage for me and off we went, stopping first for gas, as the lease cars are almost empty when they are “sold” to us.  We had to drive into France via the highway this year, as our little mountain pass above our village is still closed to vehicle traffic.  Apparently there is now a political battle going on between our mayor and the Prefet of the region.  One morning the mayor ordered the cement blocks to be removed from the road at the top of the Col de Banyuls, and then in the afternoon, they were once again replaced across the road.  The prefet informed our mayor that it would be his decision when to open the road, nor our mayor’s decision!  All the other mountain passes have been opened, and when we crossed the border on the autoroute, we breezed straight through into France, with no stopping at the border, no passport control, no showing of our passes sanitaires.

When we arrived at our apartment complex, I was surprised to find that someone had turned on our electricity.  This meant that the garage door opened for us immediately, and I could quickly get my husband up to the apartment to rest, before I dealt with the rest of the utilities.

I was delighted to find that the gas heater (chaudiere) seemed to be working.  We had hot water and the gas cook top was working, but no heat!  Our gas heater company up in the city, had made an appointment for us to check out the heater the following week, so we had to wait until then to find out what was the problem.  Meanwhile, the temperatures began to drop as Fall set in.   When the technician finally arrived, he found that the pump was seized up, probably from sitting idle for over two years, and would have to be replaced.  Unfortunately this would take a devis (estimate) to arrive by email, which wouldn’t happen until the following night, and then I had to go to the bank to transfer a deposit to their account (which was faster than sending a check in the mail), and then they could order the pump.  After another week of no pump, thus no heat, my dear 90-year old husband was suffering greatly from having no heat for his old bones and was complaining constantly about the lack of service we were getting.  Numerous calls to the company netted no results.  We then decided that maybe ordering a new gas heater was the way to go and maybe this would be get installed more quickly than waiting for a new pump for the old heater, which was getting quite old.  I called the company and asked about ordering a new heater and was informed that this could take a two or three months!  So we went back to waiting for the pump.  Then the company called me back to say they had found one heater in stock and could install that in about 2 weeks.  So we cancelled the order on the pump, waited for the new devis to arrive, then off to the bank to send them more money!  Two weeks later, with a very angry husband in the background, I was continually calling them every day to find out when the heater was to be installed.  I was told that they were waiting for a missing piece to arrive!!  Another week passed.  We had now been in our lovely apartment for a month, with still no heat.  Then one morning I was told and to “give them hell.”  Well, I did what I could in French and they insisted they were still waiting for the part to arrive.  That afternoon, when the woman called me back, I was so shocked that I said “Mon Dieu!”  She laughed and told me that the missing part had arrived that morning and someone would come to install the heater in two days.  

A very nice technician arrived a little after 9 a.m. and was done by early afternoon, delaying his lunch break in order to finish. 

But there was a little hitch.  New government regulations require new gas heaters to be installed where there are TWO  air vents, one has to be high on the wall and the other has to be at the bottom of the wall. 

So while all radiators were working and the water in the tap was boiling hot, we were still expecting more work as we waited for yet another appointment with the guy who would come and knock yet another hole in a wall.  We were told this would only take an hour or so, but we knew what that meant!—-waiting around all day for someone to show up, and then, invariably more problems would arise!  This is not pessimism; it’s simply the usual French experience talking!

While all this gas heater business was going on, we were also discussing an air conditioning system with our local plumber.  He’d given us a verbal estimate several years before, but now we wanted to make a final decision.  When he heard that we had no heat this year, he suggested a dual air conditioning/heating system, as electricity is cheaper than gas in France (the opposite of the US), so heating by electricity would be more economical.  Plus if we ever again had trouble with the gas heater, at least we would still have heat through the air conditioning units.  We decided to go ahead and get the dual system and to put it in all three rooms.  This would be a large expense, but hopefully make it much nicer for us whatever time of the year we came to France.  

It took only week for all of the materials to arrive and for the plumber and his various assistants to start drilling and breaking holes in the walls of all three rooms.  Drilling a large hole through ten inches of solid cement takes two days, which seemed like two weeks!  It took a week for all  three units to be installed, plus the large machine on the balcony. 

The plumber returned alone on the final day to turn everything on and check that all was working.  The remotes controlled the doors in the units, opening them on command.  But that was all!  The machine on the balcony was not working!  After numerous calls to the manufacturer, it was decided that the circuit board was defective and would have to be replaced by a technician from the company.  So we still had no heat, as we were at this time still waiting to hear about arrival of the new gas heater.  Our plumber had loaned us a small electric heater to help keep my husband warm while we waited for either the chaudiere technicianor the air conditioning technician to arrive, and that was a saving grace for us.

A month later, just as we were leaving to return to the US, a technician arrived with our plumber and replaced the defective circuit board.  We were assured that all was now well.  It wasn’t until we returned to France the following year that we discovered that the drain lines had not been connected and that one of the pump motors was defective!  

Our third project of the year was the replacement of both large sliding glass doors in the two bedrooms and a new shutter in our bedroom.  I had ordered the windows a month before leaving the US because I knew that they typically take two months to be delivered.  But when we arrived, our local man from the window company had to come and remeasure to be sure he had the correct measurements.  It had been almost three years since his first devis so everything had to be redone.  That meant that nothing was ordered until we arrived and we planned to stay only two months this year.  In addition, there were huge delays all over France because of the pandemic;  manufacturing had simply shut down during the duration.  So it was touch and go as to whether or not we would get our windows and shutter before we departed. And in fact, they did not arrive until after our departure.  Our French friend and her husband kindly took care of supervising the window company’s work to replace the windows and shutter while we were gone.  They did the same the following year when we finally had the small door to the balcony replaced.  So now all the radiators and the windows and shutters have been replaced, the bathroom has been renovated, the toilet has been replaced, the oven and cooktop have been replaced, lights in the WC and the hall and the master bedroom have been replaced, the washer has been replaced several times, and the small refrigerator has been replaced.   

And through all these trials and tribulations, I continued to cook wonderful meals and try out interesting recipes.  The fresh food available in this area and the joy I find in my kitchen as I create new dishes keeps me alive and looking forward to the next day.

Skansk Potatis (Swedish Fried and Creamed Potatoes)

  • Prep
    20 min.
  • Cook
    20 min.

Ingredients

  • 2 T. shortening
  • 6 medium potatoes, diced or shredded
  • 1 medium onion, chopped
  • 1 t. salt

1/2 t. white pepper

1 3/4 c. cream

1 T. chopped parsley

Directions

  • In large frying pan, heat shortening; add potatoes and onion.
  • Cook on medium, 10 min. or until well browned.
  • Add salt and pepper.
  • Gradually add cream and simmer 10 min. until tender.
  • Sprinkle with parsley.

Veal Escallops with White Wine and Taragon

  • Prep
    15 min
  • Cook
    30 min.

“Source: Woman’s Day Encyclopedia, vol. 4, p. 651”

Ingredients

  • 8 very thin escallops of veal
  • flour
  • 3 T. butter
  • 3 T. cooking oil

salt to taste

1 T. fresh tarragon or 1 1/2 t. dried tarragon

white wine (1/2 bottle)

Directions

  • Pound and dust escallops with a little flour.
  • Melt butter and oil in a large skillet.
  • When bubbly, add escallops and brown quickly on both sides.
  • Season with salt.
  • Add tarragon and just enough wine to cover meat).
  • Lower heat a bit and continue cooking, turning veal once or twice to be sure they are evenly bathed.
  • When wine has cooked down and meat is tender, remove veal to a hot platter.
  • Add 1/4 c. more wine to pan.
  • Turn up heat and cook rapidly for a minute or two.
  • Pour juices over the veal.

Swedish Apple Pudding

Swedish Apple Pudding

  • Prep
    15 min.
  • Cook
    20 min.

“Delicious and can be made ahead of time.”

Ingredients

  • 3 c. soft bread crumbs
  • 1/4 c. butter, melted
  • 3 T. sugar
  • 1/2 whipping cream
  • 1 T. sugar

 

1/4 t. vanilla extract

1 2/3 c. chunk-style applesauce

1/2 c. chopped almonds (toasted)

2 T. raspberry jam

Directions

Combine bread crumbs (9 slices of bread), melted butter and 3 T. sugar. Bake in 375 F. oven for 15-20 min., til lightly toasted, stirring.

Beat cream with 1 T. sugar and vanilla til soft peaks form.

In 1-quart clear glass bowl, layer 1/3 crumb mixture, 1/2 applesauce, 1/2 almonds, and 1/2 whipped cream. Repeat, ending with crumbs. Cover and chill. To serve, melt jam and drizzle atop.

16. Will We Ever Be Done?

Furniture replacements were next on our list of renovations. We’d used the sofa bed (canapé lit) for over 30 years. There was no support left in it—one sunk so far down and then had trouble getting up!

Then the two “comfy” chairs in the living room were leftovers from the previous apartment owner and the material was all worn away on the arms, plus they, too, sunk so far down that I felt I was practically sitting on the floor.

So one day we went up to our furniture store near Perpignan and we chose a canapé relax, which is a reclining sofa, and then looked at Murphy beds for our daughter’s room. While the bunk beds in that room were great when she was 12 and separated as twin beds when she was 20, she was now 30 and it was time for a larger bed, which would also have the advantage of folding up against the wall, opening up her room for other uses when she wasn’t there. We found what looked like a good option, and when our daughter arrived that July, I took her up to the store to get her approval. The surface I’d chosen was white as I thought this looked the brightest and would blend in with the wall covering, but she took one look at it and said “Honestly, Mom, all I see are fingerprints!” She was right! It was a smooth surface and any hand or finger marks showed immediately. So she chose a textured grey finish. I marked all our choices down in a brochure and got estimated prices from the clerk. Then we waited until the following year to order the sofa and bed. I had to order the bed before leaving the US as it was to take several weeks to arrive. Once I received the call from the store saying it had arrived, it was time to disassemble the twin beds. This turned out to be much more difficult than I’d anticipated.  Luckily the furniture store told me that they would take apart the twin beds and carry them to our garage for us—no charge.  Of course that meant that I needed to clean out the garage.   Our French friends offered to come and cart off the debris from the garage and take it to the dechetterie. One has to have a special permit card in order to take things to the decheterrie (dump), so our friend offered to do this for us. Off went the boat hooks and the anchor, paint pans and a lot of wood, mostly left by the previous owner of our apartment. It was a good clean-out.

The furniture men arrived the following day and spent 4 hours installing the Murphy bed. When it was completed and I came into the room to see the finished project, I realized I had ordered the wrong finish! This was not the grey textured finish our daughter had chosen; it was a grey smooth finish and there were already finger prints showing on it! I was so upset! But we must look for the humor in life, so we now call it the “Big Fridge,” as that is what it looks like!

After they left, I discovered they’d broken through the living room wall when bolting the bed to the bedroom wall, so they had to repair that when they returned with the sofa two weeks later. It was a poor repair, but at least there was no longer a hole in the wall!

The men took away the old sofa bed and the two very old chairs straight to the dump. This is one procedure we have noticed about France which is different from the States. When you order something new, the workmen will take away the old directly to the dump for you, sometimes for a fee and sometimes for free. When we replaced a sofa in the States this past year, we had to make many phone calls to get a charity to come take away the old sofa for us and they were very particular that it was not stained or torn in any way. The trash pickup would, of course, have taken it, but then I would have had to drag it down to the curb and that was way beyond my abilities.

The new recliner sofa we bought in France is so solid that it’s almost like sitting on a hard bench. But it’s reclining and electric, so that’s very nice. It’s also much smaller as it’s only a two-seater, so there’s more room for a larger end table; I had fun rearranging the living room for the first time in about 20 years. And it’s grey and white—just like the “big fridge”! That night we had pina coladas to celebrate our new furniture. I promptly knocked my glass on the tile floor, smashing it to bits and christening the new sofa. It had been a long week.

My best friend came to visit overnight and helped me put together all the linens for the Murphy bed. We quickly discovered that I couldn’t put on the zippered mattress cover as the mattress was strapped to the frame. So that was a useless purchase. But the mattress padded cover, sheets, light blanket and comforter were soon in place. I commissioned my friend to paint a frieze on the long white panel—a beach scene with a young couple and two cats following them, then two children playing near the water’s edge. Perhaps someday this will be accomplished!

Next I drove up to our DIY store, Castorama, stopping first at the light store to purchase a new light for the WC.

I found a mirror for our daughter’s room and a few other items at Castorama, then exited to find that I had a flat tire! The tire was completely flat.

So I called Peugeot Assistance and they sent a road service person to me an hour later. (It was amazing how many people came out of Castorama and told me that my tire was flat while I was waiting for him!) He couldn’t find the leak, but changed it to the emergency tire (only good for 80 km), and followed me to the Peugeot dealership across the street, and kindly explained everything to the mechanics for me. They found the leak on the sidewall near a bent rim. No insurance coverage for that. And they didn’t have the high-end tire to replace it! In France, by law, tires have to match on each axle. So I went down the street to Feu Vert, a tire store, and asked them to help me. They didn’t have these high-end tires either, but could sell me two less expensive tires for only 200 euros. That took another hour. I got home six hours after leaving in the morning! And I had a spare tire to store in the garage. Nothing is easy.

The following month, the gas company store in Perpignan called to say they had our two radiators ready to install. These were a small heated towel rack for the kitchen, and a large radiator for the outside wall of the living room. We were excited about getting more of the old radiators replaced as the old ones were difficult, or not impossible, to regulate. The one in our daughter’s room did not work at all. While the radiators did not matter much when we were only visiting during summer months, now that we were retired and empty-nesters, we were in residence in the spring or Fall when temperatures dropped considerably and the tramontane blew fiercely. We needed the heat for our old bones!

It took three plumbers and six hours to remove the two old radiators from the kitchen and living room and install the new ones. Then they discovered that the new towel bar in the kitchen was leaking, so that had to be remedied. It was nice having my kitchen towels on a heated rack so they dry quickly, but I had to move my bread bag, in which I store our daily baguette, to the other end of the kitchen; the heat from the towel rack was drying out the bread!

Three weeks later, I discovered water on the living room floor; the new big radiator was also leaking, so I had to call the plumber to return and fix that! It seems he’d left his apprentices to do part of the job and it wasn’t done as well as he would have done it. In fact, all they needed to do was tighten a joint. A few days later he had to return to tighten something else to stop a new leak. Finally all was well, and we had a wall of heat to keep us warm. Did I say, nothing is easy?

By this time, we were into October, the time of our village’s wine festival. We’ve attended the festival, pushing through the throngs of people, all with their glasses stretched out toward the pourers of the various Banyuls vintages, longing for yet another taste of their nectar. But in recent years, negotiating the crowds are too difficult, so we settle for purchasing a box of glasses for ourselves and friends, and enjoying the view of the 10,000 visitors from far above the fray. On Halloween, our young friends from Cerbere came to us for luncheon. By then their hotel was closed for the season and they were feeling relaxed once again. They arrived with a huge bouquet of flowers standing in a plastic bag of water (!) and two volumes of Almanac des Gourmands from the early 19th century. I have so much enjoyed reading through these interesting books.

My menu that day had to be themed, of course, being Halloween, so we began with Perelada and Zombie Eyes (cherry tomatoes stuffed with crab and topped with a tiny circle of black olive).

Then Witches Cauldron (boulettes de poisson aux legumes),

Slasher’s Plate (veal in tarragon and skansk potatis),

then Monster Mash (Swedish apple pudding).

We had a wonderful visit with them and they then helped me figure out how to pay our real estate taxes online, which is so much easier than waiting for bills to come in the mail. We are trying to make life a little easier for our daughter when it’s her turn to pay all these bills!

On November 11, we were up early to watch part of the Armistice Day ceremonies in Paris on TV. Then I walked downtown to the ceremony behind city hall, where I met my French friend. We stood listening to all the speeches.

Suddenly one of the little school girls fainted. I watched as they attended to her and when my friend asked me what had happened, I turned to her and whispered “A little girl fainted and they carried her away.” She looked at me with a question in her eye, so I repeated myself slowly, “A little girl fainted and they carried her away.” It was only when she looked at me in amusement that I realized I’d spoken to her in English! We both burst out in laughter, which was so inappropriate for the solemn occasion, but really, it was too funny.  She told me I was getting just like our mutual friend who does so much translating back and forth between French and English (and also Spanish when her husband was alive), when we’re all together that she would get confused and translate to the wrong language for one of us!

Our cruise home later that month was memorable; not only were we celebrating my husband’s birthday onboard, but we had my best friend with us, returning to the US to visit with her mother and to spend some time with us in our US home. We enjoyed several culinary classes together, as well as exploring a few Spanish ports. It was a memorable trip.

The following Spring, we returned to France once again onboard an Oceania ship. I once again enjoyed the cooking classes onboard, this time with a new friend from Washington DC, and had a lovely visit in Madeira to the embroidery workshop, quickly visiting my favorite Funchal shops to buy some birthday gifts.

We arrived at the port in Barcelona on time and quickly got a taxi to our usual car lease office in Mas Blau, near the airport. The drive up to France was tiring for me this year, but we arrived at the home of our French friends on the edge of our village in time for a light lunch of escalivada, brochettes and strawberries. My best friend called just as we finished eating, to make sure we had arrived. Since my husband was beginning to fall asleep, we quickly continued on to our little apartment on the other side of the village. I got him into the apartment and he immediately fell asleep on the bed. Meanwhile, I turned on the utilities, got the car into the garage, and took some of the luggage up to the apartment. Everything went well until I plugged in the refrigerator. Then all the electricity went out!

Our upstairs neighbor, a single gentleman of advancing years, who has always been so kind to us, was home when I knocked on his door for assistance. He checked our controlleur, which turns on and off our electricity to the apartment. Nothing happened. From his apartment we tried to call EDF, the electric company, but the system is all computerized and they would only speak to the account holder from the account holder’s phone. But since our electricity was off, we also had no phone service as the phone batteries were all run down, not having been connected for 9 months!

So then I called our wonderful electrician, who is always very difficult to book. (We’d been waiting two years for him to install the new light in the WC.) He did answer the phone, but said he was too busy to come by and investigate our electricity problem. So I called our French friend with whom we’d just had lunch, and she called our plumber (remember him?). He said he would come by to see if he could help us. By this time, I was in tears.   But then the door bell rang and it was the electrician! He’d felt guilty, I suppose, about not coming to help us. He got right onto the problem and found the cable connections had come loose, so he just tightened them and all was well. He helped me get the chaudiere started and the stovetop. While all this was happening, the plumber rang the doorbell, ready to help and I had to apologize to him saying that the electrician had arrived after all! He was not pleased! He’d interrupted his day to come to my aid and now I didn’t need him after all. My husband slept through all of this! So that was our first day back in our little home in paradise,.

Our first renovation project this year was the installation of new radiators in the two bedrooms. These were the last two radiators to be installed. I have gotten into the habit of requesting estimates from the various companies and workmen before leaving each year for the work we think we’ll want done the following year. This gives me an idea of how much money I will need to bring from the US and gives me the opportunity to place an order with down payment before leaving the States. As some items we’ve ordered, such as the Murphy bed, and the garage door, take up to two months to arrive, and we only stay in France for three months at a time, this extra lead time becomes very important.

While we waited to hear from our gas company about the new radiators, I enjoyed visiting all the shops downtown, particularly the poissonerie and buying lots of fresh fish. I discovered a new fish, which I’d never seen before. It is called a sar and is like a fat dorade, which is bream, in English.

Following instructions from my best friend, I laid it on a bed of vegetables, covered it with slices of lemon, and baked it in the oven.

It made a lovely meal and successful new experience for us.

The day arrived for new bedroom radiators to be installed. I was up at 7:30 a.m. getting ready for the workmen, who were to arrive about 8:30 a.m. It was pouring rain outside, so I put out hangers to hang wet jackets and then big white bath towels on the wooden floors for their wet tool boxes. Our gas company plumber, with his apprentice, arrived about 9 a.m. It took them five hours to install the bedroom radiators. They did our daughter’s room first, then ours.

We sat in the living room, bored after I did three hours of ironing! But finally all was done, with guarantees that there would be no leaks this year. I laid a piece of paper towel under each radiator anyway, just so I could easily check for water leaks. I gave the plumber our check and then his apprentice handed me back one of my white towels, all grimy with black gunk!! Even bleaching it didn’t get the grease out. I guess I have more rags now. But it is so nice to have heat in the bedrooms.

The big project for this year, though, was the installation of awnings on the balcony. Over the years, we have considered several options for keeping the sun off the balcony when it’s not wanted, and for protecting us from the wind. Some residents have their balconies enclosed in glass. Others have awnings that crank out at an angle. We chose the third option, that of awnings that come straight down. Because our balcony is double in length, it needed two awnings, which actually makes it so much more flexible. I insisted that we have them electrified with remote controls, so we could move them up or down from the living room or even without getting out of bed in the morning. So before leaving the States, I had mailed our signed devis and check to the window company in our village. Because of the weather and the tramontane blowing its usual spring wind, this installation was delayed two months. But finally, the men were ready to come and install our awnings, as well as matching material on the outside of the railing, which provides a bit of privacy. Madame, in their office, said I’d been a bonne sport for waiting so patiently. They had predicted that it would be a half-day job, but they were working from 8 a.m. 4 p.m.

The end product was fabulous. This team of workers has been so very good through the years, even with cleaning up afterwards.   We immediately requested a devis for the following year to have the bedroom windows replaced as they leak cold air in the winter and, if we ever manage to have air conditioning installed, they will need to also keep out the hot air of summer.

 

The following day, I went downtown to our plumber’s appliance store to look through a brochure of cooktops. It was time to do one last, although unplanned, renovation project. My old cooktop was really struggling after 40 years. Only 3 of the 4 burners worked and they had only 2 settings: medium high and high. We’d looked at various configurations over the years, always dreaming of kitchen renovations, which keep slipping down to the bottom of the list. But now we just wanted something that would actually work and would make my kitchen adventures more congenial. I found a lovely 4-burner cooktop that had automatic lighting (as I have in the States); no more lighting it with a friction device each time I turned on the burner! So I ordered it and then awaited its arrival.

This was the year of celebrating 75 years since D-Day. On the morning of the 6th of June, we watched the 75th Anniversary D-Day ceremonies on TV all morning; they were very impressive. We invited our French friends and my best friend for afternoon coffee. It was a day of remembering the war and its devastating losses, and a day for our French friend to remember the joy and wonder she felt as a little girl when the Americans arrived to liberate her small village in the north. She remembers well the day the tanks arrived with soldiers. At first she thought maybe these were more Germans, but when the soldiers began to throw them rolls of Life Saver candy and packets of instant coffee, she knew the Americans had come to save them! Her mother invited some of the soldiers to their home for coffee, and she still has a photo that was taken on the occasion. The French will always be thankful to the American soldiers because they had suffered for so many years of occupation by Germany and deceit by the French Vichy government.   My husband told of his youth outside London, dodging bombs on the way home from school, of the war-time rationing that continued well into the 1950s, and of watching the gliders start out across the channel on the night of June 5. It was a day of remembrance and chills still travel up and down my spine when I think of listening to them speak of their youth in the time of war.

We had glasses of Banyuls wine, tarte aux fraise, decorated with French, American and British flags, coffee and chouquettes.

That night we watched the 75th Anniversary D-Day ceremonies on TV, which were very impressive.

It took another week for my cooktop to be installed. The plumbers had come to look at the lines under the old cooktop and discovered that these were all copper; the new law in France requires that the gas lines be made of flexible plastic. So measurements had to be made and an estimate prepared for me. On their day of arrival, they appeared at 2 p.m. and were done by 4 p.m. They’d had to cut the opening in the countertop a bit, so there was sawdust everywhere! Unfortunately, I’d emptied the top shelf in the cabinet, but not the second shelf. It took me another two hours to clean all the dishes on the front of that shelf, which had gotten covered with the sawdust. But I had a nice new cooktop for my kitchen and I was ecstatic!

Four burners that worked! Automatic lighting of the burners! And they even managed to straighten the tilt of the old countertop a bit, so that saucepans no long slid off the burners!

So what’s left to do? Well, there are the bedroom windows and shutters to be replaced, and I have a feeling that the washer is on its last legs. I have never been able to figure out how to replace the narrow sliding door between the living room and balcony and its shutter needs to be replaced. Then we’d hoped to have air conditioning installed in the two bedrooms before our plumber retires later this year.

But the world pandemic has intervened, and we are confined in our home in the States for the duration. So I dream of being in our little French village, enjoying lots of fresh fish, tree-ripe fruit and vegetables, letting the tramontane blow all away all the cobwebs from my mind as I create new dishes in my little kitchen, and hopefully walking down our hill frequently to enjoy a cup of cappuccino (really, café viennoise) at the PMU Cafe with my friends.

Tatins de poireaux aux Saint-Jacques (scallops)

Tatins de poireaux aux Saint-Jacques (scallops)

  • Prep

  • Cook

Ingredients

  • 2-3 leeks, cleaned and chopped
  • 3-4 sea scallops per person (depending upon size of scallop)
  • 1 sheet of puff pastry, thawed
  • 1 T. olive oil
  • salt, pepper, sugar
  • optional: creme fraiche, chives, saffron; beurre citron sauce

Directions

  1. Soak scallops in cold water, lemon juice and sea salt for at least 30 minutes (if US scallops). Dry thoroughly and sprinkle with coarse ground pepper (black or pink).
  2. Sauteed chopped leeks in olive oil. Season with salt and pepper to taste; sprinkle with a little sugar. Set aside.
  3. Cut rounds (about 4″-5″ in diameter) from puff pastry, one per person.
  4. Pile leeks onto papered baking sheet in 4″ to 5″ flat rounds (one per person). Top with rounds of puff pastry.
  5. Bake 20 minutes at 180 C. (355 F). until pastry is golden.
  6. Saute scallops in butter or olive oil. Make sure the pan is very hot before adding scallops.
  7. Invert pastry rounds and leeks carefully onto individual plates and top with scallops.
  8. Option: add beurre citron sauce or serve creme fraiche with chives and saffron on the side.

Boulettes aux poissons et aux legumes

Boulettes aux poissons et aux legumes

  • Prep

  • Cook

Fish balls with vegetables. (Source:”Femina” magazine, p. 35.)”

Ingredients

  • 600 g. filet of whiting, cut into pieces and processed
  • 4 slices of bread, soaked in 5 cl. warm milk
  • 1 egg
  • 1 heaping T. cornstarch
  • 2 T. chopped chives
  • 2 carrots, julienned
  • 100 g. snowpeas, thinly sliced (or green beans, sliced)
  • 120 g. peas
  • 1 bay leaf
  • salt and pepper
  • 2 cloves garlic, crushed
  • 40 g. butter
  • 1 tomato, small dice
  • 4 stalks flat-leaf parsley, chopped
  • 20 cl. cream

Directions

  1. Mix together fish, panade (bread and milk), egg, chives and cornstarch.
  2. Form balls.
  3. Melt butter; add garlic, veggies, bay leaf, salt and pepper.
  4. Add cream and boil.
  5. Add fish balls, and lower heat. Cover and simmer 10 min.
  6. Sprinkle with parsley and tomato.

15. Renovations – Part 2

More Renovations

The following year, was our year to experience a lovely spring in Banyuls. Returning to town by passing through the Col de Banyuls, was like driving through a garden of wild flowers. Each twisting turn opened up spreading vistas of color all along the mountainous road that took us from Spain to France.

This was also the year we were to celebrate our 30th wedding anniversary. We decided to celebrate this anniversary with our close friends, the two couples with whom we traditionally spend a lot of time when we’re in France. And, of course, we chose Pierre-Louis’ restaurant in Montner as the venue! This was going to be an expensive meal, so we decided to cut our vacation expenses by choosing a cheaper cruise line for our crossing into Barcelona. We had used this cruise company once before and were not pleased with the cuisine or service, though it was only half full.   But we thought maybe we would try it again. Terrible mistake! It was worse than ever, plus the ship was completely filled!   So we will return to our favorite Oceania ships for all our crossings in the future.

Our most important renovation would be a new garage door. The old, original, garage door was made of solid wood and moved horizontally along a track in the cement floor of the garage. It needed constant attention to clean out the track, then to keep it greased, which was something we were not able to provide on a regular basis, since we are in residence only three months a year. As we became older and older, that door became heavier and heavier. We had noticed some of our neighbors had replaced their old doors with lovely metal automatic doors. After getting a recommendation from one neighbor, we were able to receive an estimate before leaving town the year before. It would be expensive, but we had several months in which to save up. We ordered the new automatic garage door before leaving the States, using our estimate (devis) from last year, as it was to take 2 months for the door to arrive. By the time we arrived in Banyuls, our check had also arrived at the garage door company, but they would not cash it until the door arrived at their workshop (very proper). So now we just had to await arrival of the door.

One of our first agenda items after settling into our apartment once again, was to go to our plumber’s appliance store and order the new fridge, which we’d found at an appliance store last year. Our old refrigerator, which was by then about twenty years old, had a peculiar habit of freezing up the back wall so that any food up against the back wall would also freeze! This was really annoying when I put fresh produce, like lettuce, into the fridge. In recent years I would place a rolled up towel at the back of each shelf to keep food off the back wall. So the year before, we had gone to a large appliance store in Perpignan to look at refrigerators and to figure out what kind of appliance we would need to be frost free and not freeze on the inside of refrigerated compartment. We chose a tall Samsung with freezer drawers on the bottom. Fridges in France nowadays are either under–the-counter (table-top), or they are very tall to maximize the space available. If you are about 5’8” tall, your head would come to the phone on the wall in this photo; then imagine reaching up to the top of the fridge! To access the top shelf of this new fridge, our much shorter daughter will have to stand on a step-stool! And, yes, it is situated in the corridor, as the kitchen is much too small for such an appliance.

new fridge

One week later, the new fridge arrived and the plumber’s assistants took our old one to the dechetterie (the dump). Unfortunately, they didn’t know how to change to doors to put them on the left hinge, instead of the right hinge.

new freezer

Since my kitchen is through the open door to the right of the fridge, I would need to be able to open the door to the left in order to get things out of the shelves and drawers while working in the kitchen.   The plumber promised to return the next day, but, apparently, went off to the mountains for three days, instead! A week later, one of his assistants arrived to change the door, but found it was too complicated for him, so we waited another couple of hours for the plumber to arrive with yet another helper to reverse the doors. Two hours later, all was complete and I can now open the doors from the kitchen. One must be patient with plumbers in France—and treat them like royalty.

We had asked for a new estimate for a new kitchen window from the window company in our village. The original window opened with a hinge at the bottom. This meant that whenever I wanted to clean the outside of the window, I had to climb up on the sink and lean over the open window as far as I could, in order to clean the outside glass. When one’s age nears the 70-year mark, one is reluctant to climb up on ANYthing, let alone a kitchen sink! So we had planned for several years to replace this window with one that opened in two directions, like ones we had seen in Germany. The new window would be hinged at the bottom as well as the left side, so that it would open towards me OR open like a book. Superb! We’d also requested a roll-up screen for this window (screens are mostly unheard of in France, although they became popular a few years ago when the mosquitoes were particular bad). But the new estimate showed that the screen had doubled in price since our original estimate, so we scratched that from the order. The new window would arrive in three or four weeks.

While we waited for the new automatic garage door and the new kitchen window to arrive and be installed, we began planning for our 30th anniversary celebration. We had made the restaurant reservation before leaving the States, but had to change it when we arrived, as my best friend’s husband had lost his battle with lung cancer while we were on the ship en route to Barcelona. We arrived just a day after his funeral, so were devastated to have missed the opportunity to say goodbye and to support his wife through this trauma in her life. He will be sorely missed from our outings together. A former matador and former stone mason, our Spanish friend always added a spark to our gatherings. Speaking only Spanish, but understanding a little French, he would wait patiently for his wife to translate our friends’ French for him into Spanish or our English into Spanish. My best friend was by this time tri-lingual and was kept very busy whenever we were all together. We had many funny moments when she would turn to her husband and translate the French conversation into English for him before realizing she was speaking in English instead of Spanish! He would nod his head thoughtfully, smiling secretly, while the rest of us burst into laughter.

So we were only five for our grand luncheon in Montner; I had produced a little commemorative program, celebrating our anniversary, as well as milestone birthdays for we three ladies, and a memorial to our missing friend.

I had ordered a Poirot silver swan cane for my husband’s gift, and had our daughter mail it to me from the States, as it was just too long to fit into any of our suitcases. Because my husband was not physically able to do any shopping in the stores, he decided that I should go to our favorite jewelry store in Perpignan (the store of the wedding rings; see: 10-“Out and About”) and purchase a Catalan garnet ring for my anniversary present! The Catalan garnets are a must for any shopping list; unfortunately, the garnets originally found in the Catalan are now only found in pieces of antique jewelry. Today’s garnets come form elsewhere in the world, but are cut and set in the Catalan style. A strictly controlled guild guarantees the Catalan garnet industry in the area. So my best friend and I met one day in Perpignan, had our usual coffee and pastries at L’Espi, the pastry café, and headed over to Gil et Jean Jewelers. We had so much fun looking at different rings and were delighted with our final choice. Luckily my husband agreed with our choice! So now we were ready for our celebration. The day before, our friends sent us a lovely bouquet of flowers.

anniversary flowers

The weather was beautiful on that day in May as we headed up to the hilltop village of Montner. We had a lovely round table in the corner of the dining room and then informed the chef that we would like to order the chef’s choice menu. This meant about nine courses chosen by the chef and the accompanying different wines for each course. Our guests were surprised with the commemorative program I’d created, which included Sara Teasdale’s poem (“Let it be you…”) from our wedding program, which my best friend had translated into French for our French friends. As she read the poem in French, it was a tearful moment for all of us as we remembered her husband, whose passing was still fresh in our minds and hearts.

Let It Be You – Sara Teasdale

            Let it be you who lean above me

                        On my last day,

            Let it be you who shut my eyelids

                        Forever and aye.

            Say a “Good-night” as you have said it

                        All of these years,

            With the old look, with the old whisper

                        And without tears.

            You will know then all that in silence

                        You always knew,

            Though I have loved, I loved no other

                        As I love you.

 We started our celebration with the obligatory champagne accompanied by parmesan galette presented in a rack.

galette in rack

Then mushroom and lobster bisque with Roquefort cream and star anise foam.

course 2

Third course was foie gras poached in a duck bouillon with spring vegetables,

course 3

then asparagus wrapped in a lasagne noodle with cream of tarragon sauce and pistachios.

course 4

Fifth course was galinette (fish) topped with a paper-thin layer of blanched pork fat with fava beans and peas, citrus and spinach. Sixth was lamb topped with a slice of anchovy butter, artichokes, almonds and mashed potato with gravy on the side.

course 5

Desserts then arrived: pepper ice cream on red fruits and red galette,

dessert 1

followed by lemon souffle with rhubarb sorbet.

dessert 2-souffle

And finally coffee with chocolate slabs and pistachio financieres.

dessert 3

Four hours later…… Yes, it was a typical French luncheon presented by Grand Toque Chef Pierre-Louis Marin, with superb cuisine, wonderful wines and fabulous company!

Chef Morin

A month after our arrival, our new garage door was ready to be installed. I spent several days cleaning out the garage, trying to move anything that looked like it might remotely be in the way, into a more appropriate spot. The workmen arrived at 9 a.m. and were completely done by 4:30 p.m. They agreed that the old door was really heavy! We still have a “little door” within the garage door, just like in the old door. My American friends think this is “cute.” For us, it’s a convenience as we store quite a few things inside the garage, besides the car, and it’s easier to open the “little door” than to take up the entire door when we want something from storage. Now we just have to remember on our arrival each year to go upstairs to turn on our electricity, before we can open the garage door. That’s the only hitch!

new garage door

While we waited for our various workmen to arrive for this year’s projects, I continued my daily routine of walking down our steep hill to fetch the newspaper and bread every morning, then back up the hill to plan our noon meal. My happiest times are always spent in the kitchen, creating new dishes and happily preparing the tried and true ones. This year the village had decided to renovate the front de mer—the seafront. As usual there was much disagreement about what should be done or if anything should be done to clean up the seafront and create a congenial modern space for tourists and villagers to enjoy. There were always those who felt that nothing should change—all change was bad and we had enough tourists. And then the others, who wanted to modernize and bring more tourists to our village, would speak up and present their plans.   After much discussion over the winter, the plans were going forward. Several of our Maillol statues were placed in storage for safe-keeping, as was the cannon that pointed out to sea.   When the flower festival arrived in late May, the seafront was looking quite nice.

front de mer

The cannon eventually reappeared on the edge of the terrace later in the season, and once again guarded us from unfriendly visitors from the sea. But in the meanwhile, I was walking through rubble on my way to town. It took me a few days to re-route my usual walks in a way to avoid the rubble. As some of the villagers said with distain, “It looks like a bomb site in Afghanistan!” I was hopeful that when we returned the following year, all would be lovely and ready for the summer season.

Another two weeks passed before we heard from our window installers that the kitchen window had arrived. They quickly scheduled us for the installation the following week. I hadn’t been able to clean the outside of this window for over two years, so you can imagine how anxious I was to once again have a clear view of the sea, while washing my dishes! It’s bad enough to wash everything by hand; the lovely view is my compensation!

The workmen arrived about 1:45 p.m., but on the way to the elevator, the young apprentice dropped the toolbox, spilling screws and bits and pieces all over the terrace below! Poor guy! What a way to begin a job!

window workmen

But their work was wonderful, as usual, and by 4 p.m. we had a new window—one I could actually clean on the outside!

new window

No more murky views of the sea for me! And no more murky views of me for the sea gulls!

new window-sea gull

I was ready to do some cooking, some inventing, and some experimenting!

One of the new recipes I tried that season, was one I’d found in the Sunday magazine, Femina.   “Boulettes de poisson aux legumes” can be made with any white fish. I have used rascasse (scorpion fish) in France, flounder and whiting in the US. In English we would probably translate this recipe as “Fish Balls with Vegetables.” I prefer the French title. It’s easy to make and absolutely delicious! The fish is minced in a processor and combined with bread then formed into balls. The vegetables are stir-fried, then the fish balls and cream are added. The only time -consuming part is cutting up the pea pods (or fresh green beans) and carrots into julienned slices. I particularly like to use this recipe when finishing up odds and ends of fish after another favorite recipe, such as “Hashtag Fish.”  I also use the vegetable-cream sauce with seafood ravioli or any other pasta primavera dish.

boulettes de poisson

Another new recipe that has become a favorite is Tatins de poireaux aux St. Jacques (“Scallops with Leeks on Puff Pastry”). I usually have a package of puff pastry in the freezer, so it’s easy to pull out a sheet the night before to thaw in the refrigerator, and then to cut rounds that are ready to bake. The leeks are sautéed quickly and arranged in rounds on a baking sheet, then topped with the pastry rounds and baked. Once inverted onto plates, the leeks are topped with sautéed scallops. Often I add a beurre citron sauce over the scallops. A delicious recipe!

tatin de poireaux et st. jacques

This was the year that both our daughters visited us within a few weeks of each other. The eldest came with her fiancé in late June, driving down from Germany. Since we are never sure what time they will arrive, we decided this year to order one our Poissonerie’s large seafood platters, instead of preparing a luncheon out of my little kitchen. Our guests were to arrive on a Monday, but the fish shop wasn’t open on Mondays, so I had to pick up the seafood on Sunday, with the proviso that I open the oysters myself on Monday morning. Our kind fishmongers put a wet towel over the oysters and instructed me to thaw the whole lobsters the following morning. The platter of seafood cost about 100 euros, but was well worth the price! We had such fun teaching our guests how to open the oysters and then putting together all the seafood on a bed of ice in the styrofoam boat. It was so heavy that we needed help carrying it out to the table on the balcony.

seafood platter

When our younger daughter arrived, she kept her boyfriend busy, taking him all around the village, visiting all her childhood memories. We then went the rounds of all of her favorite restaurants, and met with all her honorary aunts. Her boyfriend had never traveled to Europe and, being a picky eater at that time, was a bit worried about what he would find to eat in France. He quickly fell in love with French food and this young crab-lover from Maryland said he had to best crab ever, when we ate at our favorite fish restaurant in Perpignan. I could hear our daughter give a huge sigh of relief!

Our next renovations will include a Murphy bed for our daughter’s room and a new sofa. Then our plumber will replace the remaining radiators, so that we can more efficiently heat the apartment in early spring and fall. We are getting further down our list of projects with only the air conditioning and a kitchen renovation to come. Our guests will particularly appreciate air conditioning in the bedrooms. As for me, I cannot wait until I have a stove with four or five working burners and a base cabinet with drawers! Unfortunately, changing out a cook top inevitably starts a change reaction which then includes new base cabinets and a new countertop, so maybe a new sink, too! It will be a huge and disruptive project and looms on the horizon, over which I peer with anticipation and trepidation.

Spinach Souffle

Spinach Souffle

  • Prep: 30 min.

  • Cook: 45-50 min.

“Source: Woman’s Day Encyclopedia”

Ingredients

  • 3 T. butter
  • 1/4 c. flour
  • 1 t. salt
  • 1/4 t. pepper
  • 1/8 t. nutmeg
  • 1 c. milk
  • 1 c. grated Swiss cheese
  • 1 c. well drained finely chopped cooked spinach (1 box frozen chopped spinach)
  • 3 eggs, separated

Directions

  1. Melt butter and blend in flour, salt, pepper, and nutmeg.
  2. Gradually add milk, stirring until well blended.
  3. Cook over low, stirring constantly until mixture is thick and smooth.
  4. Add cheese and spinach and cook until cheese is melted.
  5. Cool.
  6. Beat egg whites until stiff, but not dry.
  7. Beat egg yolks until thick and lemon-colored.
  8. Add yolks to spinach.
  9. Fold in whites.
  10. Pour into buttered 1 1/2 qt. souffle dish or straight-sided casserole.
  11. Bake at 325 F. for 45-50 minutes until inserted knife comes out clean.